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Vikki's avatar

I became a homeowner at 40 after a decade of single motherhood, followed by marriage. I tried many times in the early 2000s to purchase a home on my nursing salary as a single mom - and with FHA availability - and yet I couldn’t afford anything that was not a fixer-upper — and spoiler alert: banks do not loan money for these types of homes that can’t pass inspection when you are buying your first home and don’t have enough cash upfront.

I also tried living with another single mom years before that — which was great in theory and terrible in reality. It turns out that we were excellent friends but terrible roommates. Our parenting styles clashed sometimes and we found other issues that made things untenable, so we called it quits after a few months.

I am all for the idea of buying older homes and also sharing space on the same property. Sadly, many people without lots of cash have an easier time getting a loan for a brand new home or new construction loan.

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Jack Herlocker's avatar

“Affordable housing is a form of freedom.”

I bought my first home in 1982 as an ensign, with a VA loan (no money down) for $45K, then sold it for $54K three years later when I got transferred. That was a big payout on a junior officer salary!

For 38 out of 45 years adulting I have been a home owner (or co-owner, the last 25) and I cannot imagine what the GenZ and Millennials are going through trying to get started.

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