The Secret Thing You Need for a Good Marriage That Nobody Looks For

You need it for friendships, too

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I never in a million years would have picked my husband on a dating app.

He loves baseball. I despise all sports. He is a perfectionist. I am a half-asser. He doesn’t read novels at all. I write them. His favorite pastime is recording music. I have a tin ear. He is almost a teetotaler. I love a good dive bar. He is a ve…